{"id":6307,"date":"2026-06-01T21:07:53","date_gmt":"2026-06-01T21:07:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/billlosey.com\/knowledge-center\/?p=6307"},"modified":"2026-06-01T21:07:53","modified_gmt":"2026-06-01T21:07:53","slug":"changing-unhealthy-behaviors","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/billlosey.com\/knowledge-center\/changing-unhealthy-behaviors\/","title":{"rendered":"Changing Unhealthy Behaviors"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Most Americans know the fundamentals of good health: exercise, proper diet, sufficient sleep, regular check-ups, and no smoking or excessive alcohol. Yet, despite this knowledge, changing existing behaviors can be difficult.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Generally, negative motivations are inadequate to effect change. (\u201cI need to quit smoking because my spouse hates it.\u201d) Motivation needs to come from within and be positively oriented. (\u201cI want to quit smoking so I can see my grandchildren graduate.\u201d)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Goals must be specific, measurable, realistic, and time related. In other words, \u201cI am going to exercise more\u201d is not enough. You need to set a more defined goal, e.g., \u201cI am going to walk 30 minutes a day, five days a week.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Permanent Change is Evolutionary, not Revolutionary<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As a rule, individuals travel through stages on their way to permanent change. These stages can\u2019t be rushed or skipped.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Phase one: Precontemplation.<\/strong>&nbsp;Whether through a lack of knowledge or because of past failures, you are not consciously thinking about any change.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Phase two: Contemplation<\/strong>. You are considering change but aren\u2019t yet committed to it. To help you move through this phase, it may be helpful to write out the pros and cons of changing your behavior. Examine the barriers to change. Not enough time to exercise? How could you create that time?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Phase three: Preparation.<\/strong>&nbsp;You\u2019re at the point of believing change is necessary and you can succeed. When making plans it\u2019s critical to begin anticipating potential obstacles. How will you address temptations that test your resolve? For instance, how will you decline a lunch invitation from work colleagues to that greasy spoon restaurant?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Phase four: Taking action.<\/strong>&nbsp;This is the start of change. Practice your alternative strategies to avoid temptation. Remind yourself daily of your motivation; write it down if necessary. Get support from family and friends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Phase five: Maintenance.<\/strong>\u00a0You\u2019ve been faithful to your new behavior. Now it\u2019s time to prevent relapse and integrate this change into your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Remember, this process is not a straight line. You may fail, even repeatedly, but don\u2019t let failure discourage you. Reflect on why you failed and apply that knowledge to your efforts going forward.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Most Americans know the fundamentals of good health: exercise, proper diet, sufficient sleep, regular check-ups, and no smoking or excessive alcohol. Yet, despite this knowledge, changing existing behaviors can be difficult. Generally, negative motivations are inadequate to effect change. 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